Get Over What?

OK, it's Christmas time.   I don't want to hear any rants about it being OK to say "Merry Christmas" instead of "Happy Holidays" now that Trump will soon be our next President.    American Christianity and the Christmas holiday are not under some blistering attack from the politically correct multicultural intellectual elites.  

If this fits, please take a breather in telling me or the majority of voters who didn't want Trump to "get over it."   Last time I checked, this is still a democratic republic where citizens can be skeptical of their government.   We elected a President, not an absolute monarch.

I'll promise to back off from getting all hot and bothered over our incoming President until he actually takes office.   As we saw today alone with the assassination of Russia's ambassador to Turkey, the terror attack on a Berlin Christmas festival and the ongoing humanitarian nightmare in Aleppo, the world is a troubled place.  Demonizing or shutting down those you disagree with only makes us weaker.   I hope our new President realizes that.  Yes, there's always hope. 

Post Mortem

WHINERS WHINING ABOUT WHINERS:

After the nastiest campaign I've ever seen, gloating over the outcome to shocked Hillary voters is not a way forward. Time and hopefully a successful Trump administration can go a long way toward healing. In the meantime, people are entitled to their feelings. Just because folks have serious concerns doesn't mean they're trying to be your buzzkill. On the other hand, immediately wishing every possible calamity on Trump and his voters is not the high road Michelle Obama talked about.   

ON THE ROLE OF THE MEDIA:

We got exactly what we asked for, with giant corporations controlling (in this case) information like other other big names dominate their respective industries. They tailored it all to their target demographics and didn't care about the common good. Big name blogs looking for hits are not much different from AM talk radio, cable news or anything infotainment with an agenda.  There are still journalists who believe in speaking truth to power, and please click on the fact checkers like Politico.com and Snopes.com!

WHAT HAPPENED TO "THE MOST QUALIFIED FOR THE JOB"?:

People just couldn't warm up to Hillary Clinton.  The enthusiasm wasn't there to overcome the perceptions of corruption even in the face of an outrageous, lying, authoritarian, mysoginistic narcissist.   The Democratic party is now totally rudderless as its establishment ignored its traditional base of white blue collar workers who went for Trump in the Midwest Rust Belt.   I don't think Bernie Sanders was "robbed" of the nomination; nor did he "sell out" to the establishment.  Millenials and working class folks concerned about their futures were receptive to Bernie's message with millions of modest contributions while Hillary and her GOP elite counterpart Jeb Bush came across as the past with their big corporate donations.  Yes, FBI Director Comey threw a wrench in the works at the and the Electoral College didn't square with the popular vote, but there should be no reason why this race had to be such a tight one. 

WHAT'S NEXT FOR THE DEMS?:

Say what you want about whether Bernie's economic math adds up, his movement is the wave of the future for the Democratic party to survive.   They have to stop being the tool of Wall Street and big donors.   In other words, just being a kinder, gentler version of the Republican party is not cutting it.   Bernie and Trump shook up things with passionate people power.  Let's hope populism can be put to good use.      

The "Post Factual" Era - Are We There?

Like many Americans, I've been taking in the travesty that is Election 2016.   A campaign I never expected to see in my lifetime has left me numb.   As an older white guy, I realize I'm in a political minority within my own demographic, but we're all in some minority.   I also work in a broadcasting business that has played a major part in fanning the flames.  I hope we can find our way out of wallowing over our alleged situation as we get away from dangerous and shallow obsession over celebrity.   We have find some consensus. Compromise is the only way.   That goes for ideological purists and diehard fans of all candidates.  Respectful discussion and rule of law are the only things keeping our country from devolving into some banana republic.  When Donald Trump condones violence and takes childish namecalling to a new low, the disgusting firebombing of a Republican office only serves to fuel his vitriol even more. 

You can watch the ongoing bullshit yourself without any help from me in making up your mind.   Here's a post someone put on economist Robert Reich's Facebook page that sums up my feelings:

I hope Trump implodes, and more importantly, I hope the GOP understands that nastiness, lies, conspiracy theories and misleading their base eventually backfires. It is up to them to begin repairing their own constituencies' distrust of institutions, including elections, science, media, etc. in order to move the country forward. We can't even debate issues on the same terms because our "facts" are so different.

It's not just the GOP that propelled this post-factual phenomenon forward.  We willfully ingest this swill (myself included).  In other words, we as a society tend to get what we ask for, not what need or necessarily want.  Check out this YouTube video from CNN, where Bill Maher gets very serious and makes a lot of sense... unfortunately:
http://mindy-fischer-writer.com/2016/10/bill-maher-unloads-trump-new-interview-video/

Can We Handle The Truth?

Today I had to fight off the urge to post something on Facebook based on the latest outrageous utterances of Donald Trump and his enablers.   Thankfully I came here instead. A short time ago when I filled in on the Stu Bryer talk show at WICH, several Trump supporters continued to push the nonsense over President Obama's birth certificate.   I finally had to reply that the "birtherism" that propelled Trump's candidacy and potential Presidency was clearly malarkey and baloney.  Today, when Trump tersely and unapologetically acknowledged that Obama was indeed born in the USA, I couldn't help but wonder if his most blindly loyal supporters felt at least a tad let down.   They had bought this load of crap hook, line and sinker.   Now he backs off his big claim to political fame with a pitiful shot at Hillary Clinton, saying she actually been "all in" in actually starting the whole birther thing.  It's yet another disgusting chapter in a crazy election cycle.   

Many blame the media for stoking this campaign of anger amnd misinformation, but do enough consumers really demand the truth?   It's out there, but we have to look.   Sadly, the deplorable aspect about most of this is the quick acceptance of one-sided information from politically driven media outlets.  Is Fox News really the only place where we get facts no one else will give us, or does their agenda just fit neatly into their viewers' conservative world view?   Don't think I'm letting my liberal friends off the hook.   The "Bernie or bust" attitude reinforced by low trust issues and policy disagreements with the Democratic nominee may cost Hillary the election.   Believe me, logical thinkers will have to compromise infinitely more if you stay away from the November polls or vote for a third party longshot.   It's beyond policy these days.   It's all about whether or not you want the most dangerous demagogue to ever occupy the White House to be sworn in as our next commander-in-chief.   That means we have to hold this narcissistic liar accountable by demading the facts, not spin.   I rely on websites like Politifact for fact checking.   We need to be realistic, informed consumers of information now more than ever!  

We handle the truth... if we want to. This article in Rolling Stone provides some analysis. 

What Have You Got To Lose?

Donald Trump & Mike Pence in flood ravaged Louisiana (AP)

This must be the "pivot" many pundits have called for.   After months of making the most polarizing and overwhelmingly false claims, Donald Trump presented a vague scripted apology of sorts about regretting some "comments that may have caused personal pain."   There are Hillary haters that are so anxious for a Trump Presidency that may actually believe this statement now makes everything OK.   After all, as Trump said to the African American community before a white audience, "What have you got to lose by trying something new?"  He then labelled Clinton a "bigot."   You could make a case for a lot of things about the Democratic nominee, but "bigot" is not one of them.   And "new"?   What Trump spews is very old..

One thing I notice among the most ardent Trump supporters is the attitude that things can't get any worse.   The media, Democrat, intellectual, Hollywood and even Republican elites are all rigging the system and bowing to "political correctness" that have killed this nation.   Tear it down and start all over, or more likely bring it back to when "guys like us, we had it made."   Is there some validity in these feelings?   The post-industrial age has taken away most of those blue collar manufacturing jobs that used to guarantee lifelong employment as big corporations have stepped in and are beholden only to shareholders.   Screw the employees; screw the community.

Can we blame this all on Obama or even the last few Presidents?   This shift is bigger than even the most powerful man (or woman) in the world.   The challenge is to get realistic about international trade deals without isolating what remains the globe's biggest economy from everyone else on the planet.   The simple narratives that Trump offers up are classic appeals of demagogues throughout history.   Most are based on zero facts; just go to fact checkers who still do actual journalism like politico.com or snopes.com.   No wonder Trump backers blame the media for their guy's slide in the polls, which seem to be giving the Donald a sudden need to display previously unheard of humility.  

I'll grant you two things: Hillary is not saint.   The angst among older working class white voters (and they do vote as well as call right wing talk shows) has to be taken seriously and not looked down upon.   Bernie Sanders tapped into some of this fear and frustration in a more positive way.  Trump may lose, but the desire to bring things back to the type of good old days that never existed remains strong and can be exploited by the con artists of the world because yes, it CAN get worse... MUCH worse.    

Bernie and Beyond

This is a pivotal week for the future of the United States as a democratic republic, and it concerns me like nothing has since 9/11.   Last week, we were treated to a demonization of Hillary Clinton like no major party candidate has ever been subjected to, with cries from the right of, "Lock her up!"   Now the "Bernie or Bust" left is threatening to cast a shadow over a Democratic convention run by Debbie Wasserman Shultz and a party establishment that has entertained the idea of taking the low road to prevent a Bernie Sanders nomination.   The latest email dump, shady circumstances and all, exposes people who are more bent on sabotaging a good man's fair shot at a nomination - one that showed more promise at keeping an egomaniacal demagogue out of the White House - than the party's "establishment" candiate. Shultz needs to quickly get as far away from Hillary Clinton's camp and the Philadelphia convention as possible while Clinton needs to reach out to disgruntled Sanders backers like never before.   Getting rid of superdelegates is a start.

What I prefer Bernie Sanders?   Absolutely, but don't think Donald Trump wouldn't wrongfully label him a communist more than Senator McCarthy used the term in the early fifties.   Sanders does better than Clinton in a matchup against Trump, but it would be nasty either way.   Did the Democratic Party have an anti-Sanders/pro-Clinton bias?   The latest email fiasco bears out what many already felt.   

I'll say it one more time.   Donald Trump is an existential threat to a political system (warts and all) that still holds more promise for mankind than any other system in history.   We have to get the outrageous influence of big money out of the equation.   To the Bernie or Bust liberals who went so far as to boo their own candidate when he called for supporting Hillary, I say get off your high ideological horse and remember that every protest vote against Hillary - or boycotting the November election entirely - is a Trump vote.   Once when we let our idealism blind us to reality, we got Nixon.   Trump is far worse.      

What I Can Do

Normally, I look forward to my WICH morning radio show.  Friday was a notable exception, with breaking news from Dallas of five policemen slain by a demented individual. That followed and preceded protests over black motorists shot to death by police in Louisiana and Minnesota.   Of course, the blogosphere had already exploded this week with outrage from people disappointed that Hillary Clinton avoided likely criminal charges and jail.

What do we do?   The obvious solution is through thoughtful and positive action based on common ground across the political spectrum, but how can that go forward when the public discussion is so negative?    

The 9/11 attacks left Americans in shock and horror, yet we were touched by stories of average people going above and beyond the call of duty while so many voices came together on a global scale.   Subsequent events would make this era of consensus a brief one.   So, what can I do in my own little way to get past the anger and ignorance that fuel the news cycle?   I don't have to look - or listen - far.

Yes, that would be radio... specifically, talk radio   My first reaction Friday was to call out people who benefit financially and politically by stoking the outrage and spreading the myth that "their people" are uniquely entitled to be that way.   You don't have to lecture this old broadcasting guy about the fact that I'm on the air to make money for me and my employer, but somewhere along the way it also slipped into my consciousness that radio was designed to be a public trustee.   I mentioned some time ago about a Providence radio host fostering a public nuisance, exploiting listeners' fears about the Ebola virus.   That host has also prospered as a national network fill-in.   What's the difference between that kind of yelling "fire" in a theatre and taking the fear and hate to the next level in the context of this week's news?   Funny how they're never wrong about anything.   Beware of people who prey on ignorance and fear on the radio as with every segment of society.   When the opportunity presents itself, I will call out people in my business and others who play off fear and ignorance.

So take a walk in the sun, a drive in the country or crank up some feelgood music.   Limit your exposure to so-called "news" that has a clear agenda of profitability based on ideology.   America is a promise, not an irreparably broken reality.     

Let the Voters Decide

I woke up in the middle of the night and made the mistake of checking Facebook.   There was outrage over the FBI director's announcement that there was no legal basis for prosecution over Hillary Clinton's emails. Director Comey, widely respected on both sides of the aisle, did deliver a stinging criticism of the careless and systemic use of a private server potentially vulnerable to hackers.   There was no sign of hacking.   Nor was there evidence of intentional flaunting of security protocols.   That said, social media (and undoubtedly right wing talk radio) are abuzz about a "corrupt" and "rigged" system where the Clintons are above the law.   Speaker Paul Ryan even referred to it as a miscarriage of justice.   Donald Trump, in true third world political fashion and devoid of real information (as usual), for months has called for Hillary Clinton's jailing for the sole purpose of pandering to his base.

The FBI was in a no-win situation, but I see no need to disparage the director's motives. They'd get political heat for a drawn out probe as well as a quick conclusion.   Carelessness does not necessarily mean lawlessness, and he made that call based on tons of evidence.   The issue of Hillary Clinton's trustworthiness and overall competence should be where it belongs: with the voters.   She's got her work cut out for her, and I fail to see where Clinton money and power have made her anything close to some Teflon figure.   Certainly the optics alone of Bill Clinton's airport encounter with the Attorney General Loretta Lynch were enough to send Clinton PR people into damage control overdrive.

When it comes to truth on issues, Presidential demeanor, experience and overall competence, Donald Trump has a lot of mending fences to do.   He shows no signs of doing that as he praised Saddam Hussein for "killing terrorists."   Let the American voters decide whether or not he should be entrusted with the nuclear codes.   Votes count!

Brexit - Stage Right

For those select few among us on this side of the pond who actually paid attention, the vote in England (except London) and Wales to leave the European Union came as a shock.  British Prime Minister David Cameron announced his resignation as the hopes of the Obama admnistration and much of the international community were dealt a serious blow in a close vote.   Donald Trump, in Scotland primarily promoting his new golf resort, claimed victory in Britain "taking back" its independence while ignorant of the fact that Scotland itself had actually voted to remain in the EU as the likelihood of a new Scottish independence move increased.   Stock markets tumbled around the world.

That's not all.   In addition to Scotland talking again about breaking away from the UK, there are rumblings in other European nations about divorcing themselves from the EU.   Right wing nationalist and isolationist politicians are capitalizing on fear as immigration and terrorism become an even hotter topic.   Here what makes this British divorce from the EU so scary.   Europe has had decades of relative peace thanks in large part to effective cooperation amomng nations.   Military alliances alone such as NATO are no check against rampant isolation, hyper nationalism and ethnic divisions.  

I get it... mostly.   There are lots of older blue collar, rural, white and less educated Americans and Europeans who feel alienated by increasing globalism and technology in the economy.  There's a feeling that they're "losing" their countries to immigration and political correctness, but I think much of that fear is misguided.   The gap between the one per cent wealthiest and the rest of us is almost unprecedented.   Bernie Sanders is right in hammering this point home and forcing Hillary Clinton to pay more attention to where the true outrage should be directed.  Trump and Clinton are both part of that financial elite, yet Trump's demagoguery would place most of the blame on immigration and the intellectual elites who routinely refute his faulty "pants on fire" statements.   Unfortunately, passions seem to be overwhelming logic these days and it's not likely to get better soon.   Even if Trump gets clobbered in November, the polarization on both sides of the Atlantic needs to be addressed without jokers like Trump exploiting it. 

Memories of Muhammad Ali

"The Greatest" has passed away at 74.   Many of us in the Baby Boomer generation have memories of Muhammad Ali going back half a century.   My father never followed sports much, but boxing was the one exception.   I recall one of those rare father-son sports moments when my dad took me to see The Super Fight, a fictional boxing match between Rocky Marciano and Muhammad Ali shot in 1969 where the result was based on probability formulas entered into a computer and shown once in theatres via another new technology: satellite.   Marciano was the projected winner based on statistics from his prime.   

I remember March 8, 1971, going skiing for the first time at Powder Ridge.   After a series of backwards falls, this impatient bnovice called it a night and waited at the base for the two more experienced skiers to finish up.   On the AM radio, sure enough, was the Frazier-Ali Fight of the Century when Joe Frazier took the heavyweight title.   With that kind of entertainment, I didn't feel deprived of extra "ski time".   Ali would come out on the winning end through most of his storied career but, win or lose, this man's bigger-than-life charisma would steal the show.

Muhammad Ali's fighting days would continue through the end of his life, battling the effects of Parkinson's Disease and promoting invaluable awareness in the fight against it.   Mike, my best friend from high school who has Parkinson's himself, proves you don't have to be heavyweight champ to be a fighter with class.   Mike once told me during Ali's controversial Vietnam War protest days, "They never should've taken away his title."   He was right.   As with so many stories of American exceptionalism, Ali proved it wasn't a matter of winning every battle.   It is about perservering in what we stand for.   

Double Standard

If you are willing to give Donald Trump the benefit of the doubt on a HUGE list of outrageous statements, actions and pandering flip-flops at this point, there is little if anything I can say to dissuade you.  If you want someone with more information to make the argument that the email issue does not merit major federal offense scandal, I'll leave the heavy lifting to this smart guy from Newsweek:   He doesn't hold much hope that those Hillary haters who wish prison's in her future will be swayed.  While the world and a big chunk of America are seriously concerned about the USA under a narcissistic demagogue, Hillary has her work cut out for her because people can label her "crooked" when there's no pattern that makes her playing any more fast and loose with the truth than the rest of the candidates.   Was her use of emails through a non-secured server smart?   No, as she admits.   Was it willful criminal misconduct that put national security seriously at risk?   The FBI hasn't said that.   

Is there some misogyny in all this Hillary hate?   We can't discount that to some extent, but Trump is wrong taking the cheap shot saying she's "playing the female card."   He's been playing a dangerous, divisive, fearmongering game on every level.   I fear that the false narrative that "things can't get any worse" is leading the USA to a darker time when we look for a strongman who claims to have a monopoly on answers to legitimate concerns.

The real wild card is the role Bernie Sanders supporters will play in either uniting behind the likely nominee or staying away and allowing Trump to assume the most powerful job on the planet.   I'm a big Bernie fan myself and know Hillary's not perfect, but our very republic is in peril if we don't do everything we can to block this loose cannon.   "Bernie or bust" is a recipe for disaster in November.   That being said, it's clear that Hillary should make way for Bernie if her handling of the email investigation paves the way for a likely yet unimaginable Trump victory. The GOP ineffectively tried to avoid the delegate win for Trump, and it's sickening to see more Republicans eat their critical words, putting party over their own principles and lining up behind him.   Now it's up to the rest of us to get the focus off her damn emails, a Benghazi investigation that was a wasteful circus and the 20th century sex scandals and impeachment of her husband.   Still, Bill is way more popular than both Hillary and Donald.    Do we have a bit of a double standard?     Trump is the dangerous one!  

In Shambles?

How Presidential!

Mr. Trump has defied most of the pundits who are at a loss to figure out why he has become the GOP nominee.   As much as this prospect disgusts me, we need to understand where the huge resentment of the establishment has come from on both sides of the political spectrum.   One theme I hear on the right from Trump supporters is that it "can't get any worse."  Oh, yes it can!  The dire assessment that America is already "in shambles" is ridiculous.  Do we have lots to be concerned about?   Of course we do.  We always have.  Do we turn to an untested egomaniacal autocrat to take over and fix everything?   Any historian would say it hasn't come to that.   In other words, turning to a strongman is based on a false narrative, and that's something that should worry every freedom-loving American.   

That is not to say that Trump supporters shouldn't have legitimate concerns about a rigged and corrupt system.   That's where Bernie Sanders is right on the money.   While Senator Sanders may fall short against the more establishment-backed Hillary Clinton, his points have to be taken seriously going forward.   The "too big to fail" corporate welfare cheats and the oligarchs who profit the most while America wages wars on a credit card are the potential ruin of a society that has made more progress and projected more power than any nation in history.   Calling your critics childish may appeal to a constituency that longs for simpler times and catchy slogans, but this is not reality TV... and America never stopped being great.   Leave the over-the-top hyberbole to North Korean dictators. 

Law Talk

One of the best parts of doing the Glenn Till Ten Show on WICH AM 1310 is having guests, including a few who have become regulars on the show.   Norwich Attorney Ted Phillips is the best known in this select group, with his monthly Law Talk segment on the second Thursday of each month from 8:05 to 9:00am.   He answers individual legal questions from listeners while delving into the broader legal issues of the day that often grab the headlines. 

We talked about the recently enacted North Carolina "bathroom law" that mandates what bathroom a transgender person could use as well as some states' initiatives to allow businesses to refuse service based on sexual orientation.  A more conservative colleague wondered what the big deal was all about, since these instances would likely be few and far between.   If that is reason to let the states turn back time, why does an even bigger rarity like voter fraud have Republicans pushing often stringent voter ID laws that disproportionately limit participation by young people and minorities?   I often hear "let's send a message" when right leaning zero-tolerance positions are espoused.   I say we need to make it perfectly clear to anyone who wants to exclude people based on a range of labels that wholesale discrimination based on "religious liberty" or "states' rights" is unacceptable.   Let's not kid ourselves.   These "little tweaks" in the law won't mean the right wing is done with pushing their agenda back to the "good old days." 

Waiting For April Fools' Day

Bill O'Reilly's right wing rants aside, there can only be one plausible explanation for why Donald Trump keeps pushing the envelope more and more in an extremist direction.   He's bringing out all the hate into the open and waiting until April Fools' Day to reveal it was all a ruse to give the American electorate and political system the ultimate lecture on how polarized we've become.   Mr. Trump will then become America's voice of reason.   Surely he can't sincerely believe the ignorance he's publicly espoused or exploited.   He must at least be a smart guy, since he constantly reminds us of that more than anything.   Then cooler heads will prevail.   Yeah, that's it.   That'll point the shame on the media for fawning all over this reality show celebrity who gets ratings, a big chunk of Americans who chalk up any criticism of their guy as "political correctness", a major political party who enabled his rise and a culture looking for quick fixes while believing the false narrative that America has lost its greatness and couldn't get worse.   Surely he can't be serious.   Just wait till April Fools' Day.   Then all will be revealed.   Right?   That's the deal.   It's gotta be.   Hah?

More Platforms to Bloviate

As attached as I've become to this blog going on eight years, perhaps the best reason I have posted less frequently is due to the opportunities I've had to share my thoughts and experiences on the radio. Doing a regular local morning show and occasional fill-ins for Stu Bryer's talk show on "Personality Radio" WICH AM 1310 can really eat up a lot of content.   Of course there are show prep services I rely on, but I really find myself sharing observations from my personal life and opinions more and more.   The reactions can be immediate, whether it's banter with Marty in the newsroom, guests or Stu's callers.   Putting all the programming elements in their proper places undoubtedly makes for a more listenable show (i.e. less tuneout), but those relatable tidbits are what people latch onto and remember.   Even on Facebook, I tend to put more information updates on the WICH Radio page than what's happening with me on my personal page.  I'll still express my viewpoints here on my blog, but I think I'll make it a monthly instead of weekly thing.   A look back makes it clear already how I feel about politics, media and some pivotal life events.

For now, I'll hope my lost wedding ring turns up; my finger got skinnier and it flew off.   Some circulatory and diabetic health issues are being more proactively addressed over the winter and I'm having a great time (albeit ridiculously early time) at WICH.   Happy Valentine's Day and President's Day, and I'll be back here next month or sooner if the need dictates.   

It Doesn't Cost Anything

A belated Happy New Year!   Here's one reason I haven't been writing in this blog as often as I used to.   The last few months, I've devoted a lot of writing time getting things set up at my still new WICH morning show position.   The website and Facebook page were in woeful shape, and nobody seemed to be responsible for them.   There were other things I've done to hopefully get organized and promote the show and station.   Of course, there are often repercussions later in the day from that whole 4:00am wakeup routine.   I have also been involved in ongoing changes, including Christmas music turned into rocket science, programming music on WILI-AM.   Combine that with my other job with direct mail advertising and it's a wonder I have free time now.

Anyway, one thing that exemplifies my thin-skinned nature is the way people really think that being a nasty badass pays off.   Does it really cost anything to be nice?   After an afternoon of having good chats with current and potential ad clients, I actually feel better at the end of the day than when I get tangled up in someone's often petty rants.   Recently, WICH.com ran an unscientific poll as to how people felt about bringing Chelsea Botanical Gardens to Norwich.   The response by one side was downright nasty to the point of accusing the station of rigging the poll.   You couldn't hold a conversation with them over a poll that is no different than the "entertainment only" ones used on local TV stations and newspapers.   Then there were several callers in the first few minutes of my last fill-in on the Stu Bryer talk show attacking me as "rude", knowing nothing and having the gall to express my opinion even though I had only been on for a few minutes!   That's when I got a dose of the more enlightened side of humanity as a wave of callers expressed their support for my right to free speech, whether they agreed or not.

As we witness the nastiest Presidential campaign, I hope decent folks continue to speak out against the constantly combative in-your-face tone out there.   WICH listeners certainly came through on that score.   Choose to be nice, or even go so far as to be fair.   Make it a great day!